Another question that has come- " I love a guy, but everytime he goes through some problems in his life, he disappears without warning or anything. I am left in an abandoned state of agony, neither am i able to help him to find out what i can do to help. It is unfair on me. I can't do this anymore or be with this guy. It is painful and the helplessness and frustration makes me wanna tear my head out. Once the phase is done, he comes back to me. But it seems he doesn't realise what damage it is doing to me. Iv met someone in this time's disappearance of his. im in love with that other guy. I cant keep waiting like this."
What would you advice this woman?